DIAPERS to DORMS

Learn the one shift needed to raise kids you like, who others like and who like themselves

 

The Directional Parenting Blueprint for Re-Setting your parenting expectations, along with tools, and changes in routines you are already doing will altar your child’s future relationships with you and others as well as their own self-esteem in a healthy way.

YOU NEED A PLAN BECAUSE THERE ARE NO DO-OVERS IN PARENTING!

Let’s be honest, raising kids is hard.

At any given stage of parenting, we find ourselves frustrated at not being confident about what we should be doing.

We wonder if we are too hard or too soft on our toddler.

We’re not sure we are teaching our grade schoolers everything they need to succeed, and we feel like we’re losing control of our high schooler.

We ask ourselves questions like, “Am I good enough?” “Am I doing the right things?” “Do my kids love me?”

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Do you worry about whether you’re actually getting through to your kids!

Or you feel stuck in a rut and don’t see the change you want?

Do you lay in bed at night…wondering if your kids know you love them?

Or you beat yourself up because of some words you hollered at them?

Wondering whether your kids will be alright…will they find a spouse… Will they have friends? Will they be popular? Successful? Happy?

Do you feel like you’re not sure what to do next…wishing there was some sort of manual or app to tell you what to do in simple common sense steps?

Maybe you’re brand new to parenting and you just want to get it right!

It’s amazing to us how people will buy a puppy and spend all kind of effort, time and money on dog training…yet just assume parenting will happen naturally.

We all intend to raise good kids who turn out right, but it isn’t good intentions that will get us our desires. It is direction, the ability to take steps in the direction that will give us confidence that we are raising kids who will turn out right.

What would your life look like if you could lay your head down at night and not worry that you’re doing a good job as a parent. How would that feel?

What if you could actually measure their progress emotionally, physically, mentally, socially, and spiritually? To not wonder if they were where they should be at a given age?

 
My wife and I have been helping parents for more than 30 years: We’ve seen the end-game of faulty parenting…Now kids make choices that they have to live with…but some of the results were born out of poor parenting… kids with addictions…lack of proper work ethic…an inability to keep a job…failed relationships…suicide…many of these issues we have had to walk friends through!
No parent wants to end up in one of those scenarios!
While you can’t prevent every disaster in your kids adult life…you can shape how they respond to life!

Listen there is no greater pursuit than raising your kids…they aren’t cars or commodities that you trade when you get weary of them or they lose their shiny appeal. You are taking “mush”, clay, an empty canvas and you are creating a thing of beauty! Take this thing seriously! Most of the people in your life that you avoid…ended up that way because of poor parenting.

 

Your real problem…isn’t the symptoms…it’s simply common sense strategy we call reverse engineering. If people knew the power of this…they would stop everything they are doing and spend the time to nail down a clear proven path. Few people spend the time necessary because they have just never thought this way before. If that’s you…hang on!

Once you implement these shifts in thinking and take action…you will change forever your child’s life! Seriously!

You will know what their target goals are for each phase…they will see progress and want to grow in every area of their life.

This isn't for the wealthy or the smart or the well connected…your past doesn't matter…just the future steps you take.

Most people have great intentions to raise great kids…but… 

it’s not intention but direction that determines your destination.

There is a better way:

Directional parenting. Reverse engineering: To envision your child as an adult…

To work from the end game backwards and give practical steps at each phase.

Imagine what it would feel like to lay your head down at night without wondering if you were leading your kids in the right direction.
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What would your life look like if you could lay your head down at night and not worry that you’re doing a good job as a parent. How would that feel?

How many of you lay in bed at night…wondering if your kids know you love them? Or you beat yourself up because of some words you hollered at them?

How many wonder whether your kids will be alright…will they find a spouse… Will they have friends? Will they be popular? Successful? Happy?

What if you could actually measure their progress emotionally, physically, mentally, socially, and spiritually? To not wonder if they were where they should be at a given age? How content would you be knowing your kids were hitting certain benchmarks that you set at different stages of their lives mentally, emotionally, socially, physically, spiritually? Few things are more freeing than knowing your kids are growing at a healthy pace.

Tammy and I have been married for 40 years…we met in high school. by our 6th anniversary we had 3 kids under the age of 4 years old. We were outnumbered! 2 boys and a girl. the last 2 were 13 months. We had no choice but to figure out how not to go crazy! 

We were working with High school students at the time and so it gave us a chance to see what our kids could or would look like as teenagers. We had countless conversations about why certain kids behaved like they did. Which ones we enjoyed and which ones took more work.

As the students opened up to us about their family life…we were taking mental notes as to what we wanted to do and what we didn’t want to do.

We began teaching parenting classes. We had a great network of 8-10 couples our age and we all began to dialogue about parenting and we would. We would hangout together on the weekends with them and all of ours and their kids…

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When our youngest was 13 years old and our oldest was 17 we had a late in life surprise. We had just turned 40 and we had our 4th child a son. You talk about shock…but it gave us a chance to parent all over again…we really got a do-over. It’s been an amazing ride filled with all sorts of ups and downs. Feelings of success and failure.

So we literally had kids in diapers and dorms at the same time!!!! Crazy? I know right?!

We’ve have a hand in raising grand kids. Our daughter and her husband and their 4 kids ranging in age from 13-7 years old lived with us for 18 months when they sold their house to redo an old home. 

So today…we have kids three married kids in their mid 30’s. We have a 20 yr old who is a paramedic firefighter who lives at home and we have 9 grandkids. 6 boys and 3 girls…one of the girls has special needs and is such a joy.

All that to say…we aren’t famous parents. We haven’t changed the world…but we have been able to help others raise good kids with the things we’ve learned on our journey.

So we created a course called Diapers to Dorms to support parents through their journey.

We created a course to help parents:

Have a new found confidence in their day-to-day parenting abilities.
Know each of their child’s unique personalities and how to connect.
Clearly see what is important at each stage of the child’s life.
Possess a plan of action to shape the child in the areas of body, mind, heart and soul.

Because this course will:

  • Help you craft a well thought out vision of what your child will know, think, and feel at the 3 key phases of their life, and how to reverse engineer that so a clear plan is developed. (the Directional Blueprint)
  • Show you how to create the most impact in the day-to-day, by focusing on making a shift in the natural routines we all perform daily.
  • Allow you to see the changes you must make mentally in order to be ready to meet the pressures and pleasures of parenting. 
  • Give your child a practical understanding of who they are and their unique place in this world.

Would you be interested in going a little deeper into this? We’ve put together a 4 module online parenting course that I am so excited about. It takes the best of what we’ve learned and put it in a format that lets you work at your own pace. 

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We offer a 6 module course: Parent Reset...raising kids who turn out right!

WE EXPLORE THINGS LIKE: 

Why kids misbehave...cause of attention and control

Change behavior by reprogramming their thinking

Why treating every kid the same is hurting them! 

Why chores, grounding or timeouts, aren’t the answer.

Why it’s not about rules but relationship

It’s not about seeing your child where they are...but where they will end up

It’s not about behavior modification...it’s about changing their thinking!

It’s about more listening and strategic coaching

It’s not about not having enough time...it’s about taking advantage of flow of routine

DIAPERS TO DORMS COURSE MODULES

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What is a better relationship with your kids worth? Really think about it...this is the most important thing you could be doing with your life right now! Taking care of those gives you have been gifted with. 

You have 2 choices:

1...Do nothing and keep doing what you’re doing. And life goes on as it is! It will still be rewarding and full of great memories…

2...OR you could Risk a little investment in your children’s well-being and growth and success. And invest in you... so that you become a wiser, more focused parent... Moving toward a better life...with greater patience, building a solid relationship with your children that will create a friendship as they move into adulthood.

Here’s what Tammy and I want to offer you today:

Courses similar to this sell anywhere from $497 to $997

Because this is our newest course and we want to give you the first opportunity to buy the self study package for just $197 and the VIP package for only $200 more.

Basic

$97

What you'll get -

YOU GET:

The Basic "self-study" course:

  • The 6 module course listed above
  • Worksheets Assess where you are as a parent. Discover you and your kids personalities Learn to speak your child’s love language.
  • Walk-Throughs. We’ll walk you through how to envision what you desire your child to look like emotionally, mentally, spiritually and physically at
    various phases of your child’s life.
  • Routine Flow Activities and Ideas handouts. We’ll give you handouts to give you ideas and tips for instilling great skills and values in your children during the Morning routine, the carpool routine, the meal-time routine, and the bed-time routine.
  • Access to our closed FB community
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VIP Package

$397

What you'll get -

Some of you may want a little more help. A virtual coach. To celebrate our empty-nester status...we want to offer another package: We’re keeping this small so that we can work more directly with you and see to it that you have success with your parenting.

  • Everything in the DIY package PLUS
  • 12 weeks group coaching calls over zoom.
  • Limited to groups of 20. 

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